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Guide To Help Locate Missing
Homeless & Mentally Ill
Homeless and Missing Mentally Ill:
A Guide for Relatives
From the National Alliance for the Mentally Ill (NAMI)
People who are mentally ill cannot always communicate their
thoughts clearly or understand what others are saying to
them. In confusion, some will retreat. Others have grandiose
ideas and cannot make sound judgments. Sometimes they leave
home or other secure surroundings, and they become homeless
or missing. They can be gone for days, weeks, months or years.
Often they leave behind distraught families, who are desperate
to return their loved ones home or to another safe place.
The following information provides some helpful tips to
assist you in locating a missing mentally ill relative. If
you have a missing loved one with serious mental illness,
the following steps and information may be helpful:
- Notify your local police immediately of your missing
loved one and provide them with all the information
you can. If the person remains missing more than three
(3) days, ask the police to place them on the FBI's National
Computer (NCIC) list as an endangered adult. This computer
network provides information nationwide. The network will
give you a police number to use when searching for your
relative.
- When a mentally ill missing person 21 years of age or
older is located the police and other agencies cannot
hold or ask that they be held against their will if they have
not committed a crime. No one has the authority to
force the person to seek aid or medical care against his
or her will unless there is a medical guardianship or court
order specifying what action to take when the individual
is found.
- Prepare a one-page flyer which includes a picture of
the missing person, along with his or her vital
statistics (age, height, weight, hair color, eye color,
clothes last seen wearing, last known location, etc.).
The following list of groups, agencies, and organizations
might be able to help if you contact them:
- Local NAMI Affiliates - Each local affiliate has a NAMI
Affiliate Directory. Call your local affiliate and
ask for a NAMI contact person in the state where the person
was last seen. Send a description sheet or flyer to the local
NAMI affiliate for circulation at their meetings.
- Churches, Synagogues, & Houses of Worship -
Houses of worship are often used
as shelters and soup kitchens. Many homeless individuals
contact the church they were affiliated with during their
childhood. Ministers, priests, rabbis or other clergy may
well recognize an adult who was once a child of their congregation.
- College Campuses - Colleges and technical schools
have lounges and cafeterias. Some of them
are considered comfortable hangouts because they offer
a place out of the cold or heat, food is available, there
is human contact, and anonymity can be found among the
crowd. Take a picture of the missing individual to the
cafeteria and ask a staff member to help you. There may
be a bulletin board where notices can be posted. Students
have been known to be mistrustful of parents
looking for their kids, so emphasize the nature of your search.
- Community Health Centers - Community health centers
often treat people regardless of income or
insurance. If your family member is traveling without insurance
or cash and needs medical attention they will usually use
the local hospital emergency rooms. If the medical attention
is not an emergency, they may be referred to a local community
health center. The community health centers
have all kinds of names: free clinics, Health Care for
the Homeless, Blue Bus, Health Network, AIDS Center, etc.
They usually have community bulletin boards where you can
hang the missing person’s picture or your flyer.
- Creditors - The person may have relocated and may be
making payments on a loan or applying for credit. Get
a list of previous creditors.
- Hospitals - Get a list of the public and private psychiatric
wards from the local mental health administrator.
Emergency room personnel usually remember people who come in
from the streets. Be aware that they may not give you any
information due to confidentiality laws, but you can notify
them that you are a relative of the missing person who is interested
in their welfare.
- Public Library - The local library is a comfortable place
for many people who are homeless. Many of the
homeless shelters are not open during the day so people
often use local libraries to stay warm, use the bathrooms,
read, hang out, and blend in with everyday life. The janitors
know who uses the building for more than just reading.
- Mass Transportation Centers - Bus and train stations
are somewhat similar to libraries in comfort
and convenience for the homeless. Unlike libraries, however,
bus and train depots are not as easy to hang out in. The
bathrooms aren’t
as clean and loitering is frowned
upon. Airports are the least used unless of course the
missing individual has access to airfare.
- Free Meal Sites - Most urban areas have well-organized
meal sites. Find one and ask about the others. People use
meal sites most often near the end of the month and may
travel from site to site. Everyone seems to know the regulars
by name and face.
- Red Cross
- Salvation Army - For a small fee the Salvation Army
will file a missing person’s report in their national computer
system. A missing person’s report
will not be filed for anyone missing
less than 3 months. Many Salvation Army
locations also have shelters. Call the
nearest Salvation Army regional office
for further details:
Southeast
US: 800-939-2769
Northeast US : 800-315-7699
Central US: 847-294-2088 (Chicago)
Western US : 800-698-7728 |
- Shelters - There are public and private homeless shelters.
Call your local Salvation Army, YWCA,
YMCA, or Social Service Agency for a list of shelters in the
area. Most shelters maintain a list of those persons who
have used the shelter and will usually tell you if they
are currently living there or not.
- Social Security Office - (Subject to regulatory change)
Call your local Social Security Office and
ask them who in your area is officially contracted as the
Third Party Agency. Example: A homeless shelter in Madison,
Wisconsin, has a contract with the Social Security Office
as a Third Party Query site. The shelter submits computer
information on the name, date of birth, and social security
number. This information is submitted to the central computer
in Green Bay Wisconsin. Information returned includes Social
Security and/or SSI information: address of where the last
check was sent and when, a payee (if any), the amount of
monthly benefit, and more.
- Social Service Agencies - Someone who is homeless will
often be referred to the Social Service
Agency for General Assistance (welfare). The local Health
and Human Services Office almost always runs these programs.
Call an intake worker and ask who you would see if you
came to town with no money and no housing. Most public
agencies will tell you if your family member has been on
assistance. However, your contact person at a homeless
shelter may ask the same questions and get more answers.
What to Do When the Missing Person Is Found
General Information
Services for mentally ill persons vary widely from area to
area. Finding appropriate services for the missing individual
at a distance will probably be a frustrating experience.
Your approach should be tailored to the missing individual’s
condition and wishes, as well as to the reality of inadequate
services in many areas.
Once a police report has been made in your city and the
person has been found in another city, the police in the
receiving city may be willing to transport the individual
to the hospital for evaluation and treatment. They may also
have a social service department themselves or provide linkages
to other sources of assistance. Some states have interstate
pacts between Mental Health Systems which may provide transportation
from one system to another. Call and ask your Mental Health
Center or state Mental Health office for more information.
Telephone Calls
When accepting a collect call from a missing person you may
first want to ask where the call is coming from. This may
not be advisable in all cases.
Money - While NAMI does not recommend or endorse
the following companies, this information may be helpful
when trying to get money to a missing relative.
- Western Union – If a person is out of funds and you
feel comfortable sending them money, you may do so through
a Western Union Office using a prearranged code. Professionals
suggest that you send as little money as possible at a time.
This encourages on-going communication.
- ComCheck – ComCheck, a company of Comdata Network Holdings,
Inc., allows people to send money to over 6,000 truck stops
throughout the United States. ComCheck takes only Visa, MasterCard,
or cash at designated locations. In order to pick up money,
the person receiving it at the truck stop will need to show
identification. The toll-free number for Com Check is 1-800-833-9110.
They will be able to answer any other questions you may have
about their service.
Travel
- Airlines: A pre-paid ticket
can be purchased with cash or credit card from your
local travel agent, over the internet, by phone,
or directly from the airline counter at the airport.
There is a non-refundable service charge. On the
ticket you may specify who has the right to a refund
(if any) if the ticket is not used, or whether
it is exchangeable (in accordance with the rules
and regulations set by the airline). Ask your travel
agent for details.
- Train: A pre-paid ticket may
be purchased from your travel agent or Amtrak
counter. There is a non-refundable service charge.
This service is not available at all locations.
In order to purchase a pre-paid ticket, both the
point of origin and local Amtrak counters must
be open. An I.D. is necessary for ticket pick-up.
I.D. can be any legal document with the name of
the traveler on it. Call your local Amtrak office
for more details.
- Bus: A pre-paid ticket may be
purchased from your local Greyhound station.
There is a non-refundable service charge. This
service is not available at all locations. In order
to purchase a pre-paid ticket, both the point of
origin and the local Greyhound station must be
open. I.D. is preferred, but the ticket can be
picked up with a prearranged code. Other bus companies
may have similar arrangements.
- Travelers' Aid International
(TAI): A TAI office is Usually located in a bus
or train station. Try to locate the one nearest
to you and become familiar with this organization.
They can prove to be your best source of help with
transportation needs. . TAI can sometimes get charity-rate
bus tickets (25% off the regular price). Although
policy varies from state to state, in many cases it is possible
to send a person home at no cost, although this may take
a few days. TAI can generally provide for the person’s
basic needs during this interval.
In addition, TAI can also board your relative on the bus,
train or plane (during working hours) and make protective
travel arrangements with other TAIs in route.
TAI suggests that when at all possible send very little
actual cash. If your relative is currently delusional, he
or she may use very poor judgment in spending it or get robbed
or "conned" out of the money. If possible, work
through a TAI office and deposit money (in your city) or
make arrangements with a TAI in the city in which the missing
individual finds him/herself. They will disperse the funds
to assist in buying food, getting a hotel room or buying
a ticket.
Taken from www.ministryplanet.net
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